My husband is great. But he’s not perfect, and we’re not the perfect couple.
We got less perfect after we had our daughter. For all the ways she’s enriched our lives, marriage is certainly harder with a small, dependant person around.
Sometimes my husband pisses me off but that doesn’t mean that
a) I don’t love him
b) He doesn’t love me
c) Our marriage is in dire straits or
d) We have a bad marriage it.
It means we’re two human, sinful people having a bad day, or week.
But sharing our raw, less than perfect moments candidly with people whom we actually know in real life, over the internet is not a great way to keep the connection, and trust, strong. It’s too easy to misinterpret, is totally one-sided and at the end of the day everyone loves some good goss.
For all my good intentions of writing openly about my life, transparency and all that blah, blah the reality is I need a place that’s anonymous to write.
Oh, and for the times I piss him off he can get his own blog.
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